*Sigh* I try not to be a stuck up bitch and don't look down my nose at people. I also try to give everybody the benefit of the doubt especially when it comes to men. I know I have extremely high standards and everyone should have high standards when it comes to dating, but its ok to give somebody a chance because nobody is flawless and everybody has their own issues. Being that I am from the city of Norfolk and I am a commuter here in the city of Norfolk, I get approached by men from Norfolk every day.
I have tried to have an understanding heart when it comes to Norfolk men because I too was raised in the inner city part. But I just find it sad that guys that I meet who are almost thirty years old have as much baggage as they do. I get approached by men from Norfolk and I try to have a conversation with them, you know, because I feel like everybody deserve a chance. But every conversation that I have had with a guy from Norfolk has been just a combination of ignorance, ratchetness and just coonery. I hate the word "Coon" with a passion, but it is what it is.
Norfolk guys seem to only care about going to the club, their rap career which is going nowhere, and their slew of baby mamas who attack every chick that comment on their facebook posts. They hang out with their other 25 homeboys who are doing nothing with their lives, sitting around bus stations all day begging for cigarettes and talking about absolutely nothing. Lets talk about how every guy from Norfolk is a successful party promoter. You walk around Norfolk all day long passing out fliers, telling people to come to Club Mansion every Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday night. You flood my facebook inbox with invites telling me to come to Club Dream, you flood my mentions on twitter telling me to come to Club Voodoo and partake in a swimsuit contest and like midnight that night you float pictures of women scandilly clad in bikinis climbing up poles. You don't even have the decency to block their faces out.
Lets talk about how 95.5% of guys from Norfolk is a rapper. You have been a rapper since you were a freshmen at Booker T. Washington High School. You have been releasing mixtapes forever and you are now thirty and still trying to shop your mixtape around. When do you think a plan B should be set in motion?? Like seriously, when do you suppose you should start working on a promising trade?
Lets talk about how when you approach me to get to know me you tell me you're hobbies are hanging out with 30 of your homeboys every day, going to the club 4 out of 5 days a week, and you have 6 kids with 5 baby mommas. Then when I tell you about me how I like to read a lot, go to the museum, I like animals, I go to school, I am very active on campus and the community with work you look at me as if I have three heads. Then you come out of your mouth with a bold face lie about how you just came from orientation that day from one of the local universities and you're about to move in to the dorms but then you forgot that you told me you just got out of jail for drug possession that previous day.
Norfolk guys please grow up. You walk around with your hair nappy, tennis shoes dirty, the ones who do dress fresh to death they are still living at home with their mothers. I can NOT with you guys anymore. I'm done.
I am a Christian child abuse survivor, who has PTSD. No! I do NOT suffer from it. Yes. I take medication for it. I have known I had it for years but thought it was such a bad psychosis I went into denial. But I am here to let all Child Abuse Survivors and women with PTSD know that they are not alone. We can't do it yourselves, but with Christ we can!!!
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Monday, July 23, 2012
Dealing with Stupid People, My New Gig, Please Don't Try Me
I know...I know.. I haven't been writing in my blog the way I normally do. My fault..I apologize...I have a new gig as a writer for an online magazine called "Persuade", check it out here www.PersuadeMagazine.com . I write in the Persuade Tips section representing for the single ladies, whoop whoop! Its a magazine for successful people of all colors and nationalities that I am sure everyone will enjoy.
Anywho! I have been dealing with a lot of ignorant people lately that have been trying my patience. I know I am a very nice person but I turn into an evil witch, once I find out that people are taking my kindness for weakness. Like, do I have "Stupid" on my forehead? I mean please look at my pics that I think are displaying on this site and please comment and tell me if I have stupid on my forehead. I'm trying to really have patience with people but I feel as though people are purposely messing with me...Has anyone ever felt that way?
I did spazz out on someone last weekend due to somethings that occured which I felt was dead wrong. I didnt put my hands on that person but I really could have body slammed them if it wasn't for the Lord who was on my side and theirs. But I did tell them in a lot of colorful choice language to their face that I didnt appreciate what they did and to never talk to me again. I'm nice to everybody but please don't take my kindness for weakness. Don't try me.
The worse thing you could ever do is try your hand with me in a negative way. Being that I am a survivor of child abuse and I have dealth with a lot of bull from people who are supposed to protect and care for me I have zero patience for so called friends and strangers who take it upon themselves to try me. If you try me then I will definitely react to whatever it is that you are trying to do to me or against me and it will not be in a pretty way. It seems like I have to warn people every other month not to try me. Maybe I should just not have friends. Maybe I should just stop making friends and just stay to myself before I wind up in prison because someone decided to try me...What do you think?
Anywho! I have been dealing with a lot of ignorant people lately that have been trying my patience. I know I am a very nice person but I turn into an evil witch, once I find out that people are taking my kindness for weakness. Like, do I have "Stupid" on my forehead? I mean please look at my pics that I think are displaying on this site and please comment and tell me if I have stupid on my forehead. I'm trying to really have patience with people but I feel as though people are purposely messing with me...Has anyone ever felt that way?
I did spazz out on someone last weekend due to somethings that occured which I felt was dead wrong. I didnt put my hands on that person but I really could have body slammed them if it wasn't for the Lord who was on my side and theirs. But I did tell them in a lot of colorful choice language to their face that I didnt appreciate what they did and to never talk to me again. I'm nice to everybody but please don't take my kindness for weakness. Don't try me.
The worse thing you could ever do is try your hand with me in a negative way. Being that I am a survivor of child abuse and I have dealth with a lot of bull from people who are supposed to protect and care for me I have zero patience for so called friends and strangers who take it upon themselves to try me. If you try me then I will definitely react to whatever it is that you are trying to do to me or against me and it will not be in a pretty way. It seems like I have to warn people every other month not to try me. Maybe I should just not have friends. Maybe I should just stop making friends and just stay to myself before I wind up in prison because someone decided to try me...What do you think?
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
PEEEENNNNNNNN!!!! ARRRGGHHHHH!!!
Yeah...I don't know if its the heat...Or the side effect of my meds but I have never been so horny in my life. If you don't already know, I lead a very strict celibate lifestyle. I don't plan on having sex until I get married. Easier said in done when there is sex everywhere I go. On tv, in books, on the computer, sexy men walking around with no shirts on showing off their hot muscular bodies....Ok! Ok! I'm back. Its cool. Anyway, don't get it twisted if I want some I can get some. OKAAYYY? But that's not the point. The point is discipline and obeying God. I have to deny self. I must not be weak to temptation and flesh. LOL. But anyway, I feel like a zombie just craving fresh meat. I feel like I can't take!! I need it!!! *Grabs at clothes* ARRRRHHHHHH!! *tears at skin*..LOL..Its not that serious but if the wind blows my way I get turned on. * Looks at hot guy that just walked past my window*.....Anyway...I am praying, asking God for strength which I know he will give me.
Maybe its because I don't have any potential guys around me that are worth dating let alone looking at. Then I see couple holding hands every where, pregnant women all around me, little babies crawling all over the place. I feel as though I want a man too. But I just can't settle for just anyone and I don't feel comfortable laying down with just any body. I have to watch my body, cuz I'm not just anybody! *Aaliyah voice* I just have to get that off my chest. Maybe I should start a celibacy club or something....Hmmm...
Maybe its because I don't have any potential guys around me that are worth dating let alone looking at. Then I see couple holding hands every where, pregnant women all around me, little babies crawling all over the place. I feel as though I want a man too. But I just can't settle for just anyone and I don't feel comfortable laying down with just any body. I have to watch my body, cuz I'm not just anybody! *Aaliyah voice* I just have to get that off my chest. Maybe I should start a celibacy club or something....Hmmm...
Monday, July 2, 2012
Delicious Summer Reads
Its hot, its hazy, so why not lounge on the beach, in your favorite lounge chair and read a juicy, funny, and suspenseful novel. Here our my picks:
Our protagonist Mink Larue is an ex-stripper, who pays her bills by pulling stunts and cons. After facing serious charges that require her to pay hundreds of thousands in restitution or risk jail time, Miss Larue pulls off her biggest stunt yet. This book is hot, steamy, funny, and juicy.

There is a new addition to Author Mary Monroe's "God Don't" series. This one is the last installment, and is supposed to be the most explosive. Grab a corona, your beach towel, and some sunscreen for a hot afternoon read.
Our protagonist Mink Larue is an ex-stripper, who pays her bills by pulling stunts and cons. After facing serious charges that require her to pay hundreds of thousands in restitution or risk jail time, Miss Larue pulls off her biggest stunt yet. This book is hot, steamy, funny, and juicy.
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