Friday, June 12, 2015

Women Proposing to Their Men? (Impatience or Breaking Tradition)

There is a new wave of women who have broken down gender roles to absolutely nothing. This new wave of women have taken gender equality to a whole new level. They have shown society that not only can we raise our children by ourselves, not only can we bring home the bacon, but we can also bend down on one knee and make an honest man out of our significant MALE other. Yep. On Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and every other social network there are photos of cute women in high heels and dresses bending down on one knee proposing to their man. Some people are appalled by it, saying that it's breaking tradition, it goes against the bible scripture "He who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing", and it's showing impatience. Then there are some who are all for it. Saying that this isn't the 1800s anymore, there are no such thing as gender roles, it's gender equality. Lots of people wanted to know what I think and I am going to tell you the truth. I think it's stupid. First of all, it is not breaking tradition, it is showing impatience. Men are far more simple than women. If they want something they will tell you they want it. If he wants to marry you, he will ask you to marry him.
  Have you noticed that in every picture that goes viral of a woman proposing to a man in front of a crowd of people, that he looks awkward, nervous, anxious. He doesn't look happy at all. For example:
You see how embarassed he looks. He looks like he's saying "Can you please not do this, we already talked about this and now you're embarassing me in front of all of my coworkers at the company Christmas party". He looks like he was trying to prevent her from bending down but was too late and is now trying to figure out how to get out of this situation without making himself look like an insensitive jerk. You know, Chrissy proposed to Jim Jones on national tv and he turned her down. She kept nagging and nagging about getting married that he eventually proposed. That was four years ago and they're still engaged. HE DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY YOU, IF HE HASN'T ASKED ALREADY! Not only that but do you see how feminized he looks? Look at his whole persona. His lips for Godsake. Stop proposing to men because if he does accept your proposal it's only so he won't make himself look bad. I mean how would it look if he said "No" or "We'll talk later" in front of all of your female friends? Or in front of his mother and female cousins at the 4th of July cookout? He's going to say "yes" and in the future when you try to make plans or make up a date he's going to continue to change the subject and next thing you know, ten years will fly by and you're still a fiancee. Ok? Got it? Good! 

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