"What's Understood Don't Need to be Explained" An Excuse to Avoid Commitment

The phrase is being used in memes on the internet, on social media statuses, during arguments, and  in text messages. It has women thinking they are something special to their mate when in all actuality it is just an excuse a commit phobic man put into a woman's head to keep her silent from asking him to commit. "What's understood don't need to be explained" is the sorriest statement I have ever heard that describes a relationship or lack there of. It is even sorrier that woman are actually accepting this as a relationship status. "He loves me, he knows where home is, so he can go out and do him" is basically what women are agreeing to. But ladies need to understand that it does need to be explained. We need a clear and concise understanding on where we stand with a man so our time is not wasted. While you're waiting, being loyal and giving a man husband benefits that is not even your boyfriend, you are blocking the blessing God has for you in the form of the man you deserve. Allowing him to make you look like a clown in his circus while the woman that he really wants is unavailable to him at the time. You're allowing him to treat you like a option, like something to do to occupy his time. Aren't you time of being hidden from view? Think about it. Using memes of reality tv show characters that broadcast their toxic relationships to describe the relationship you have with a man makes you look like a damn fool. Wake up, ladies and look in the mirror. Do you really think you deserve such treatment?