Internet Beef

 There is a video going viral of a girl getting beat up on her own porch, due to a beef that broke out on twitter. I think that this is by far the most ridiculous, immature, and disgusting thing I have ever heard of. I didn't even watch it because I have never been a fan of videos showing people getting stomped, robbed, beat up or tortured. There are a lot of sick people out here who get laughs and kicks out of watching videos of people get beat up, stomped and tortured. I'm not one of those people, I just don't see anything funny or cool about bodily harm being done to someone. 

 This girl thought she was a overnight, celebrity internet sensation until the cops knocked right on her door and arrested her for assault and battery. The same people that were laughing with her and giving her props are the same people that are laughing at her because she is sitting in a jail cell facing felony charges. Twitter is a social networking site where everyone can be anyone they put their mind to. I have almost two thousand followers and over half of them I have been following over three years and I have never ever seen a real photo of them. People say mean stuff to me all the time on twitter just because I type my opinion and my own thoughts. Does this mean I have the right to put on some timberlands and go stomp a chick because she tweeted that I was ugly? No. For all we know, these people could be eight hundred pounds with an oxygen tank sitting in a wheelchair. Like I said before, on twitter you can be anybody you want to be. 

 There are so many parody accounts of me on twitter, because I have made people so mad because I type my own opinion on there. They google me, my images pop up and they take my pictures and photoshop them on celebrities' bodies. LOL. It is so stupid. But the real question is this. Who has the time to take beef seriously into the real world from the internet. That twenty minute or half hour that girl spent beating up that young lady over typed words could have been spent doing something else. That's enough time to put something on eBay, auction it, and sell it. I'm just being real. 

  I know what you'll are thinking, so I am just going to nip it in the bud before anybody else start flapping their lips about it. Yeah, me and Jennifer Hudson got into it a little verbal match online, I said some unbecoming things to her just like she said some to me. Look, I asked her a simple question and she went off on me. I'm not saying how I reacted was right but no one is to be a fool and allow anyone to disrespect them. I am still a work in progress. 

 

A Thank You Note to a Special Fan

I just want to write a special note to a special blog reader who has been not only reading my blog posts but have been mass promoting it. Ever since you have been promoting my blog and getting others to read it, my numbers have sky rocketed like never before. Being that you are a super local celebrity and you know everybody and everybody knows you this really helps a great deal. The fact that you take the time out to read my blog and you get other people to read it means a lot to me. Despite the fact that the only reason why you and other people read my blog so you can scan and scrape tidbits of information up to use against me, I still want to thank you.
 I'm also very excited that you, a big celebrity in the state of Virginia, that is well known and well liked by everyone and anyone, is showering me with so much discreet attention. I feel special, loved and it feels so good to be liked by someone of great importance.
 Maybe one day when this is all said and done we could perhaps do lunch. You can send one of your groupies who love to read my blogs and report back to you, to find out my schedule.

With lots of love,

Tanisha Monroe

My Decision to Become a Eunuch

I have dated a lot in my life and by far i am not a match for anyone. There are more women than men in this world and there are going to be some women in this world that will never be married. I believe that I am one of them. It is not that I have lost hope in men or I think men are all bad (Though I think most of them are no good), it is just that I have never complemented a man in a relationship, ever. It always wind up as a big total mismatch and they relationship goes sour because we don't fit.
 I have dated a variety of men and it never works out or they end up lying about another woman. Its always the same routine lie. They met another woman that they liked, she is more of his type, they just only see me as a friend. Am I bitter? No. I have finally accepted the fact that I am a very special woman, there is no man out here for me, and Jesus Christ wants me all to Himself. That is perfectly fine. I know what you're thinking. "What KIND of men have she  been dating"? "Have she evaluated herself"? Yes. I have dated men of God and we just don't click at all, period. I don't want a worldly man because we all know they are liable to put me through the ringer.
 Yes. I have evaluated myself. I have came up with the conclusion that I am a very special, peculiar human being. Being that I am a very special, peculiar human being I need to focus on God for the rest of my life and no one else. So with all of this being said I have some goals that I want to share. I do plan on adopting my first baby girl at the age of 30. In the meantime, I am going to adopt a puppy that I will raise myself. So I no I will not be lonely at all.
 I know what you'll are thinking. Sex. I don't want it. Let's keep it real for a minute. Half of the male population don't know what they're doing in that department anyway, so I will be just fine. Celibacy is a part of my life right now anyway so that is a non factor. I just thought I would share my decision, so feel free to leave any comments.

Love you!!

The Erica Kane Syndrome

I never once said that I was a perfect person. I never once said that I have done anything that I don't regret. I mean I am only human and I pray everyday for God to use me and direct my path the right way. I have recently done some things out of anger that I do regret. I tried to get myself out of the situation my way, to only learn that it could only be done God's way. I tried to turn a blind eye from the situation, told myself that I would deal with it later but it only came back to hit me ten times harder.
 Basically what I am saying is I learned a valuable lesson this month on taking responsibility and there is a right way to rebel. I protest, I write up open letters to people, I speak out and spread awareness because violence and attacks against innocent people and animals make me angry. However, I need to learn to control my anger when I am  done wrong.
  I am going to admit to having what I call the "Erica Kane" syndrome. The need to take revenge out on people who attack and do me dirty. That is a horrible way to be and I feel like the first step to change is admittance. I admit that I have a problem with taking revenge out on people that take the time out to do me wrong, especially when I have helped them in some way. It is a very dangerous way to be and it does bounce right back to you.
 Taking things the Erica Kane way has literally turned my life into a real live soap opera. I found myself in a whirlwind of drama that everywhere I turned I just could not escape it. The lies, the blackmail, threats, trying to use what I call "My gift of gab' to manipulate myself out of situations. It was time to reflect and have a keep it real moment with myself.
 If I hadn't got involved in the first place this wouldn't have never happend. If  I would have just walked away and shrugged it off my shoulders, instead of getting a pissy attitude, then that wouldn't have happend. Yeah. Well should've, could've, would've the point is, it is time to make some changes.
 Ladies it is so not worth it. Just walk away because at the end of the day your vengeance will bounce right back on you. Yes. You will feel good in the beginning, as if you made a valid point to let the person know, you are nothing nice to mess with. But at the end you will think "What have I done"?

 What did I do? Oh trust me. I'll tell you later.

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Spare the Rod? When Christians justify Child Abuse

Since I started really campaigning against child abuse, I have gotten a lot of feedback and comments. Majority good and of course there is always the negativity that comes with it. Some people were stating that the laws are dramatic when it comes to abusing children. As if anti-child abuse advocates were trying to tell people how to raise their children. This is not the case at all, we are not trying to tell you how to raise your children. We are trying to tell you not to beat your children into a coma. Many people have told me that it is in the bible to spank children, so they must follow God's word.
 "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." Psalms 13:24. This is in fact a true statement in the bible. You should follow everything that thus saith the Lord. I am not against spanking a child or reprimanding them by sternly telling them what they have done wrong and not to ever do it again. You are to discipline your children so that they will know right from wrong. However, there is a difference between popping your three year old on her hand for touching a hot stove  when you told her not to, and punching and stomping her to the point of where she is unconscious.
  Give me a break people. You know the difference between abuse and proper discipline. Lets not nit pick on this serious issue. You know exactly what the Lord meant  in that particular scripture. Do you as a man or woman of God actually think that He meant it was ok to kick and stomp our poor children? Do you actually think He is saying it is ok to shake newborn babies and put them in microwaves because they are crying too loudly and you can't hear your favorite t.v show? Or maybe He condones you shaking your baby to death because he interrupted your facebook game of Farmville?
 We as disciples of Christ must stop using the bible to justify our wrongdoings. I find myself doing it sometimes too so I am talking to myself as well. But to justify yourselves for severely abusing a child is too much. There was a case many years ago on a pastor that would tie up his church members and beat them brutally. Why? Misinterpreting the Psalm 13:24 scripture. Google it.
 We need to take a stand against child abuse because it is really getting out of hand. If you don't know the difference between proper discipline and child abuse, please research this.

Here is a link that can help.

http://www.livestrong.com/ This link will give you information on signs of whether you are abusing your child or not and it also refers you to a helpline if you are. Take a stand.

CHILD ABUSE AWARENESS MONTH!!

It is now the wonderful month of April. Spring is in the air, Easter is rushing upon us, lots of sunshine and rain. But April is not just about Easter eggs, bunnies, and warm sunny days, but this is also National Child Abuse Awareness Month. I have decided to put my advocacy against child abuse to use, by campaigning and bringing awareness.
 In the Hampton Roads area of Virginia, child abuse has been at an extreme high. During the month of January, every week a child was being hospitalized or had died from being beaten severely. I have always considered myself an advocate against child abuse because I endured it as a child. I feel as though since I have experienced child abuse first hand, I need to be reaching out and helping those who are dealing with it. I also plan to put together a support group towards those who have dealt with and really don't how to cope.
  Child abuse comes in many forms, not just physical. Verbal, sexual, physical, emotional, neglect towards a child under the age of eighteen are all forms of child abuse and can be detrimental. It effects a child's physical and mental health as well. So many people as well as myself, suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder because of the abuse that they endured as a child. Children are supposed to be blessings, that you care for and love on. They are not to be used as a punching bag or someone you take your anger out on because you have rough day at work.
 Starting April 3, 2012 I will be hosting a Q/A Informative session on Child Abuse and Prevention. It will start at ten am and for a full hour I will be giving out information that everyone can use to fight this. I will be giving information on what to do if you suspect a child is being abused, as well as what signs to look for. I will also be answering any questions you may have on child abuse.
 In the meantime here is a small directory on phone numbers and websites you can call, if you suspect abuse is being done to a child. We all are responsible for reporting child abuse!!!

http://www.childhelp.org/

http://www.nationalcac.org/

The Polaris Project-  1-888-3737-888

http://www.childwelfare.gov/

The Child Abuse National Help Line 1800-4-AChild

Please..If you know of a child that is being abused, take advantage of these contacts..

Thank you!!!