How to Not Give A F*&k

So this Christmas 2012 that just passed I came in talk with family members I don't like or don't want to be around. I didn't know they were going to be there and if I knew I would not have shown up. So when they stepped in the house at first I felt anxiety and anger raise up out of me. I was angry because first, the person didn't tell me they were coming and second, they had the audacity to bring their ass over when they have never came over any other time. Third, I was kicking myself because something told me not to come over there to began with. Always listen to your gut feeling; its God's way of talking to you.
  Anyway, long story short I grabbed my purse, called a ride and left. Before I left one of the family members stopped me and gave me a card. She tried to hug me but I stopped and swerved her.I'm in the process of healing and I really don't want her anywhere near me. The only reason why I accepted the card is because her child signed it too. I love him, he is my fave family member. Anyway, my point is you don't have to be around anybody you don't want to be around. You also don't have to make a scene either, you can just get up and leave plain and simple.
   Its called throwing shade the classy way. Nobody looks more stupid or more offended then someone that knows you don't like them and watch you just get up from being around them.
  The same thing goes when running into an ex boyfriend or friend that hurt you and they feel like dirt behind it. If they stop you and speak you can either ignore them as if you don't see them which makes them look dumb or simply just give a tight smile and keep it moving.
  Nobody is putting up with bull s&%t in 2013. Everybody is declaring this everywhere so I think 2012 was the year of "People Doing the Most". I mean literally nobody in 2013 is putting up with anybody's crap. Not only are people just cutting people off from their circle but some people are killing people literally. I think 2013 is the year of "0 fu$%s". But we want to not give a f$%k the right way.
  Instead of killing or hurting someone that is not worth you going to prison. Simply just cut the person off. If you are in a relationship with this person just leave. So many people feel trapped in relationships with jealous girlfriends, lazy boyfriends just because they have kids with them or they have been with them for so long. Who cares? This is your life you have to live and you deserve to be happy.
  Use this year to not give a fu$%. After all the bull crap I went through in 2012, I sure as hell don't.