Thursday, June 28, 2012

Interracial Dating: Don't Be Afraid to Have An Open Mind

Many single African American women are patiently waiting for their beautiful black prince charming. Some of us have been waiting years and often become frustrated due to lack of a few good black men. I don't know about you'll, but I find myself very attracted to white men and men of other races. We should step out of the box more and have an open mind when it comes to dating. I was brought up and raised by an older generation of women from the south that looked down upon interracial dating. I didn't understand it then and I don't understand it now. I was raised to think that if you was to date outside of your race, you were a sell out and did not like being black. I have witnessed women frown their faces up and mumble under their breaths whenever a black man was out holding hands with a white woman. I have never been angry at seeing this. I believe love knows no color.
   Men of other races appreciate black women more than black men do. They take us more seriously, they love us deeper and they are very secure in their manhood. I am finding myself more and more attracted to white men daily, not because of the color of their skin, but because of the way they think. I could go to happy hour just to relax and a white man will sit next to me and we will have the most wonderful conversations and he will offer to refresh my drink. Now if I am out at happy hour and a black man sits next to me, he offers me a drink, he automatically assumes I am going home with him.
  We as black women should really have an open mind and not just date and faun after the beautiful black brother who has horrible social skills and consider maybe going out with the white man who is a perfect gentleman. Just something to think about.

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