Ok. So if you have been paying attention or reading my blogs the last few days, then you should know what my situation is. If not. Please read the past few blogs and get a detail of what's going on. I have been looking for employment for months and months and months. I have filled out online applications, sent out resumes, filled out paper applications, passed out my resume, sent out smoke signals, sent out tweets, sent out linked in messages, sent out ESP signals to the hiring manager as I handed them my application. I have literally stood there for ten minutes explaining to the manager after I handed them my application why I am a good fit for the job. For them to just smile and say "We'll call you." What does a gorl have to do to get hired? I will NOT do anything strange, so please don't even put that in my comment box. But really what do I have to do to get hired? Should I make a t-shirt that says "HIRE ME OR DIE"? I should have a t-shirt made that says that. Then wear it everywhere I go looking for work. Then maybe an employer at SOMEBODY'S company will take me seriously. The majority of people who are in charge of hiring people value their lives, right? So if they see me come in wearing this t-shirt inquiring about a job, then that may boost my chances of getting hired. *Smile*.
I was in class the other day and these chicks were talking. They weren't straight out of high school, they were you know twenty-somethings. However, I found it sad that their mentality was that of a teenage girl. I mean I could tell by their conversation that they were very simple minded, especially when it came to men. They were bragging on their men and how they are being spoiled to death at home. I found it very disturbing at their definitions of being spoiled. I want to explain the differences between being spoiled and being treated like the human being you are.
1. Because your man picks you up from work or school on time, that does not mean he is spoiling you. He is showing consideration for a human being. Anyone with an ounce of care in their heart will pick someone up on time from work or school. Whether you are his girl. his mother, or his basketball playmate.
2. Just because your man "watches" his kids while you are at work, or while you go out with your friends for happy hour, does not mean he is spoiling you. He is taking responsibility as a parent and as a man. They're his kids!!!
3. Just because your man pays a bill and you two live together, does not mean he is spoiling you. It means he is taking the responsibility to pay his own way to live. What man would want his lady and children, let alone himself going home to a dark and cold house.
4. Just because your man washes the dishes while he's been sitting home all day, does not mean he is spoiling you. He got laid off, you still working and going to school, the least he can do is wash the dishes he messed up instead of playing Call of Duty all day long.
5. Just because your man lets you use his car to drop the kids off, go to work, pick up the kids, run errands on his day off while he does nothing but sit at home all day and play the new Madden that just came out for eighteen hours, does not mean he is spoiling you. He aint doing nothing else but sitting at home in his boxers, playing video games, eating chinese food, why shouldn't he let you use the car to take care of your business?!
Read it and weep. Because some of you'll got the game all messed up, and it is getting real sad. I mean ladies conversing with me, bragging to me how they got a good man because he went out and paid half the rent for the first time in three years. HE LIVE WITH YOU!!! HE SHOULD BE PAYING HALF THE RENT!!!
Now let me explain to you what being spoiled is.
1. Your man takes you out of the country twice in one week. Not out of town, not out of the city, not out of the state. Out of the United States of America. Twice in one week.
2. Being spoiled is when your man purchases a three ct. princess cut diamond ring from Kay's Jewelers. And it is not an engagement. Its just to say he loves you.
3. Being spoiled. Is when your man buys you a car because he doesn't want you struggling trying to catch this bus to school and that train to work, and that cab to run errands.
4. Being spoiled is when your man surprises you and the kids with a trip to Disney World.
5. Being spoiled is when your man surprises you with a dinner on the beach that he cooked himself.
Please read this. Study this. And adhere to this. Men will only do what you allow them to do. They're like children. They are such simple creatures. Its like I had to learn that the hard way, because I couldn't wrap my mind around the fact that men were just that simple. Now wait a minute, I didn't say they were dogs. I am saying that they will do exactly what you allow them to do.
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